Pattie Ehsaei
TikTok Star, Financial & Etiquette Expert
"The Duchess of Decorum" is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. Best known for her very successful TikTok channel, “duchessofdecorum,” Pattie uses her platform to teach financial literacy, workplace decorum, and empower women. She’s the perfect example of “tough but fair." A lawyer by trade, she is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused on finance. From relationship management, business development, and investment banking to raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry. When the pandemic hit, she created her TikTok account as a way to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their way through work, finances, social settings, and more. Her direct approach peppered with levity and some real takeaway has made her an instant success! Pattie's account grew to 400,000 followers in less than six months and has continued at this rapid rate, as she nears 1 million followers. She's answering questions like “How do I make and keep a budget?” and "How does a woman maintain financial independence in a relationship? to help empower people all over the world. An overnight TikTok sensation with real staying power, Pattie has something to say and wisdom to impart.